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Warning: This article contains discussions of domestic violence, which some readers may find upsetting or distressing.

A woman who once had very slim chances of survival after being shot in the face at just 18 years old is now using her experience to raise awareness and share an important message.

As a teenager, Amedy Dewey was passionate about playing soccer and took part in competitive cheerleading. But while things looked normal on the outside, her life at home was filled with unimaginable pain.

She lived through the terrifying reality of domestic violence, having witnessed it firsthand at home. In 2018, while riding in the backseat of a car on a highway in Michigan, Amedy’s stepfather pulled out a gun and shot her directly in the face.

Tragically, he then turned the gun on her mother, Lisa, and took her life, before fatally shooting himself.

Amedy, against all odds, survived the horrific attack. In the years since, she has endured a grueling recovery, undergoing an astonishing 37 surgeries. Doctors initially believed she had less than a two percent chance of making it.

Dewey was shot in the face by her stepfatherAmedy Dewey
“I felt like I didn’t have a purpose in this world. It was just surgery after surgery after surgery,” Amedy shared with PEOPLE. “I just want people to see the signs of danger, domestic violence and abuse, and be able to realize, ‘I’m not in a safe environment. My kids aren’t safe. I need to get them out’.”

She went on to say: “I keep reopening these wounds. I keep going for my family, for strangers. I don’t want anybody to suffer what I went through.”

After spending years recovering and going through one procedure after another, Amedy has now found the strength to speak up. She hopes her story can inspire others and help bring more awareness to these deeply important issues.

She explained: “Now I share what I went through to help others. I finally have the opportunity to have a voice and to tell people: This is what I saw from my stepfather for five years before the shooting; these are the signs.”

“This is what I went through. I want you guys to know when somebody is unstable, especially if they have firearms. He threatened to shoot my dog when I was 15. I want people to see the signs.”

Now 25 years old, Amedy underwent her most recent surgery in November of last year. This operation was a major step forward, as it gave her the ability to eat properly for the first time since the life-changing attack.

Amedy Dewey was told she had very low odds of survivingNorthwell Lenox Hill

Medical specialists reconstructed her upper jaw using bone taken from her fibula, and they also gave her new teeth to support her recovery.

“It’s another piece to put in the puzzle,” Amedy told PEOPLE during the interview.

She added: “I’ve had a lot of surgeries, but the most recent one made me so happy that I started dancing. I was at home with my dad and my mouth had healed enough to eat real food.”

If you or someone you know is dealing with domestic violence, please remember you are not alone.

Help is available at any time of the day. You can call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1.800.799.SAFE (7233), which is open 24/7.

Additional local support resources can be found here.

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